Nitty-Gritty Faithfulness

And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Give me justice against my adversary.’ For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor respect man, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming.’”  Luke 18:3-5 ESV

Lots of people I have met love the idea of visiting folks at the nursing home. However, of the dozens of volunteers who have bravely launched out on the mission with me, only a very few actually stick at it more than a couple of weeks. What they lack is not ability or even a love for people but the nitty-gritty persistence of this widow in today’s passage. In fact, Jesus was so impressed with this lady that He used her as a prime example of what it meant to be faithful. In Nursing home ministry this principle is essential. There will be difficulties, disappointments and even passive resistance to our serving people for the Lord Jesus Christ. But before giving up or giving in to discouragement, let’s take a moment or two to glean some pointers from our widow friend.

First of all, the widow clearly and completely communicated her message. She didn’t beat around the bush, try to ply the judge with compliments or pretend that she was indifferent to his response. Just like her, we need to fully and completely share the message of the love, sacrifice and forgiveness of Jesus Christ. We aren’t just there to play bingo, knit socks or plant flowers.

Though all those things are nice, we are sent to long term care facilities as messengers of the King. We must be kind but also clear, gentle but also good communicators of the gospel. Secondly, we must always be respectful. Even though she went every day to the judge’s house, she never complained he was taking too long, never accused him of corruption (though he was!) and never disrespected his authority. If we are to make any serious headway in ministering in a facility, it is a great advantage to have the staff on our side. Even in poorly run homes (And I have been in one or two) there is some good we can do if we respect the rules and take the authority of the administration seriously. Last of all, our heroic widow never gave up. No matter how many times she heard the word no, saw the door closed in her face and saw looks of pity on her neighbors’ faces, she always went back. Serving in long term care is a special blessing, some days it’s the greatest fun, but it is also a commitment between us and Jesus to stay the course. There is an old saying that goes, “If He can get it through you, He’ll get it to you.” and usually people use this in relation to financial giving. But this is also true of giving by a nitty-gritty faithfulness of service and then receiving from Jesus an outpouring of His love for those precious people who most of the world has forgotten!

Hope of Answered Prayer

31 Days of Hope – Day 12

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus  Philippians 4:6-7

Whether you are facing life from inside the four walls of a nursing home or the four walls of your apartment or house our need for God’s help doesn’t change. There are hours we all pass through when we have lost patience and through tears of frustration hope seems far away. But God’s presence and promise to take care of us as our shepherd and provide for our needs hasn’t changed.

At that very moment when we can feel the dark shadows closing in around our world God stands close and anxiously waits for us to leave our anxieties and needs at His feet. He will not stop caring for us when the cares of life press in. He will not abandon us when we feel alone. He hears our worried thoughts and listens to our prayers. He stands ready to come to our aid. He has not failed, forgotten us or written us off. Our great Savior guides us through every night and carries our hope in His hands.


His Eye is On the Sparrow – Ethel Waters

Thinking of giving up because of the passing or years? Feeling helpless in the grasp of circumstances beyond your power to control? Love this testimony and song as presented by Ethel Waters nearing the end of her life with a heartfelt faith that faces sorrows square on and yet trusts God.